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Smashed Up Against The Looking Glass: A Shame Journey

Shame is one of the most powerful and invisible forces shaping our lives. Unlike guilt, which says “I did something bad,” shame whispers “I am bad.”
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The Fallout of Narcissism: Why It Hurts and How We Heal

When people hear the word narcissism, they often think of vanity or selfishness. But it’s not just about arrogance—it’s about deep insecurity, fragile self-worth, and a desperate need for control.
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I Hate You, Don’t Leave Me.

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is one of the most complex and misunderstood mental health conditions. Those who live with it often experience overwhelming emotions, a fragile sense of self, and a deep fear of abandonment.
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10 Signs You May Have Grown Up with a Borderline Parent

Growing up with a parent who struggled with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be confusing, painful, and often invisible to the outside world.
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When Your Parent Still Hurts You as an Adult

Many people assume that once you’re grown, your parent loses their power to hurt you. But if you grew up with a mother or father who struggles with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)—you may know this isn’t true.
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Emotional Affairs: Understanding the Hidden Strain on Relationships

Unlike physical infidelity, emotional affairs tend to unfold quietly, leaving deep wounds that are invisible to the outside world but intensely felt by those involved.
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Betrayal Trauma:
Affairs, Financial Infidelity, and the Hidden Wounds of Broken Trust

When we commit to a partner, we do so with the expectation of safety, honesty, and shared responsibility. When that trust is broken—through affairs, financial infidelity, or secret-keeping—the emotional fallout can feel like the ground has been ripped out from under us.
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After the Affair: Navigating Betrayal and Choosing Your Path

Discovering your partner has been unfaithful is one of the most destabilizing experiences in intimate life.
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How to Write a Dating Profile That Actually Gets Results

Creating an online dating profile can feel a little like writing a résumé for your love life. You want to stand out, but also be authentic. The good news is: a well-crafted profile can do a lot of the heavy lifting for you.
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Understanding Trauma: How It Shapes Us and How We Heal

Trauma is not just what happens to us—it’s also what happens inside us in response to overwhelming events.
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The Hidden Impact of Pornography on Intimacy

Pornography has become one of the most accessible and normalized forms of sexual stimulation in modern life. For many, it may start as curiosity. But when pornography becomes a regular part of one’s private world, it can quietly seep into the shared space of a relationship.
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Understanding Mood Disorders: A Guide to Recognition and Healing

When mood becomes persistently unstable or overwhelming, it can interfere with relationships, work, and even physical health. These conditions are known as mood disorders—a group of mental health diagnoses that affect millions worldwide.
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